Told yourself so.

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 If I had told myself that 2 years after being dumped, I would end another relationship and understand all the sadness and confusion I had seen in my ex‘s face, I would scarcely have believed myself.

But this time, it is also because I love him.

I want a better match for him. Someone who is able to love all of him with all of herself.

I doubt I ever will love that way. But the romantic in me says to wait and see. But there is also a me who says, maybe that is how I roll. Always being critical of others, however much I love them. Obviously this is not fun for them nor me. But maybe I could live desiring a romance and living a regular relationship.

But I feel it is not fair to them as they deserve better. They will have better, easily. I will have to wait. Maybe, I should let them decide if they could live with being with someone who always loves just parts of them. Guess what though? I could not live with someone accepting that, in a way using them. I love them too much.

Crazy hey?

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